No shame with being Kinky

I will not stand for any kink shaming, I am not looking for. "that is so gross, so abusive, so wrong" answers here. I am very used to people cringing and turning away from the things that I do, and I completely get it. Blood, Fire, Sploshing, and heavy pain are all niche kinks.

I am also not looking for "I am just not into that" statements. I have tried over and over again to get into rope as it seems like a hole in my skill set. However, I completely understand the motivations behind tying and being tied. There is beauty in it, and being restrained or put on display makes total sense in my head.

Even stuff like ABDL I can sort of wrap my head around. It is not something I am interested in, but I understand regression and feeling taken care of/being a caretaker for someone helpless.

I would love the comment section here to turn into a fun discussion. Someone mentions a kink they do not understand, then someone who loves that kink explains what it means to them. Perhaps we can find some understanding along the way.

So tell me, what kink or kinks make you wonder what anyone gets out of them?